Don't judge a book by it's cover!

Sunt uneori uimita de mentalitatea de turma. De prostia omeneasca. De faptul ca suntem asa limitati ca judecam oamenii aspru si pe nedrept. Ii judecam fara sa ii cunoastem. Daca ai tatuaje, sau o freza ciudata, daca ai un decolteu mai "pronuntat" , daca te imbraci in negru...esti direct catalogat. Judeam dupa aparente, prea repede. Nu stim ce este in spatele fiecarui chip. Judecam oamenii fara sa le stim istoria, ii evitam si ii catalogam. Sa nu mai vorbim de cei cu defecte fizice sau psihice, ei nu sunt considerati oameni. Am vazut mame care nu isi lasa copiii sa se joace cu alti copii cu dizabilitati. Am vazut oameni care se holbau efectiv la cei fie orbi, fie infirmi, fie cu vre-o boala mintala. De ce sa te holbezi, de ce sa ii eviti, de ce sa susotesti in spatele lor? Nu vor sa fie asa, sunt oameni si ei, nu sunt deloc diferiti. Nici macar pe cei prosti, sau neciopliti nu avem dreptul sa ii judeam, pentru ca nu le stim trecutul, istoria, genele...nu stim nimic. Si totusi judecam, batjocorim, umilim, de ce?

                               Thanks   K for the photos.

 

 

 

 

 Don't judge others because you can't understand them. Or because they look different. Don't stare at people, don't whisper next to them...act normal. I tended to judge people, and I know that everyone tends to do that. Don't judge, because people may be different not because they want, or to be cool, they can be different because they were born like that. There are people with physical or  mental disease, that we can not understand, and it's OK. It's not OK when we judge their family, or them, or when we stare at them like they are less human than us. Even the fact that someone is stupid, or uncouth, even that is not a  thing to blame. We have no right to say what is normal or not, because normality is questionable. I have seen people that avoid to walk next to ill people, or mothers that don't let their children to play with children that are different. Why would you do that?

Motto-ul de azi:  “Stop trying to 'fix' yourself; you're NOT broken! You are perfectly imperfect and powerful beyond measure.  When we see someone or something as imperfect, it is a reflection of our limitations, not theirs.”

 

cable knit sweater women     cheap sweaters for women  fair isle sweater women