luni, 23 septembrie 2013

Don't judge a book by it's cover!

Sunt uneori uimita de mentalitatea de turma. De prostia omeneasca. De faptul ca suntem asa limitati ca judecam oamenii aspru si pe nedrept. Ii judecam fara sa ii cunoastem. Daca ai tatuaje, sau o freza ciudata, daca ai un decolteu mai "pronuntat" , daca te imbraci in negru...esti direct catalogat. Judeam dupa aparente, prea repede. Nu stim ce este in spatele fiecarui chip. Judecam oamenii fara sa le stim istoria, ii evitam si ii catalogam. Sa nu mai vorbim de cei cu defecte fizice sau psihice, ei nu sunt considerati oameni. Am vazut mame care nu isi lasa copiii sa se joace cu alti copii cu dizabilitati. Am vazut oameni care se holbau efectiv la cei fie orbi, fie infirmi, fie cu vre-o boala mintala. De ce sa te holbezi, de ce sa ii eviti, de ce sa susotesti in spatele lor? Nu vor sa fie asa, sunt oameni si ei, nu sunt deloc diferiti. Nici macar pe cei prosti, sau neciopliti nu avem dreptul sa ii judeam, pentru ca nu le stim trecutul, istoria, genele...nu stim nimic. Si totusi judecam, batjocorim, umilim, de ce?

                               Thanks   K for the photos.


 


 





 Don't judge others because you can't understand them. Or because they look different. Don't stare at people, don't whisper next to them...act normal. I tended to judge people, and I know that everyone tends to do that. Don't judge, because people may be different not because they want, or to be cool, they can be different because they were born like that. There are people with physical or  mental disease, that we can not understand, and it's OK. It's not OK when we judge their family, or them, or when we stare at them like they are less human than us. Even the fact that someone is stupid, or uncouth, even that is not a  thing to blame. We have no right to say what is normal or not, because normality is questionable. I have seen people that avoid to walk next to ill people, or mothers that don't let their children to play with children that are different. Why would you do that?

Motto-ul de azi:  “Stop trying to 'fix' yourself; you're NOT broken! You are perfectly imperfect and powerful beyond measure.  When we see someone or something as imperfect, it is a reflection of our limitations, not theirs.”



 


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72 de comentarii:

  1. Such beautiful photos and such a sad theme for you post..

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  2. Life isn't always just milk and honey. Life is tough. Sometimes we have to embrace sadness, because it's a part of our lives..... It's not sad, it's just life. And yes the photos are very nice. Thanks K. ;)

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  3. Trebuie sa recunosc ca inainte faceam si eu greseala asta, sa judec dupa aparente...dar din fericire viata m-a invatat sa nu mai fiu superficiala!

    Imi place foarte mult rochia denim!

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    1. Multumesc Daniela. Si ma bucur ca esti unul din oamneii care invata din greseli. ;)

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  4. Foarte draguta rochita si pozele! ce norocoasa esti ca ai un fotograf personal :)

    Din pacate, ai mare dreptate cu ceea ce ai scris mai sus, dar tin sa precizez ca "fenomenul" de a judeca oamenii fara sa stii absolut nimic despre ei este foarte pronuntat in Romania (tind sa cred ca mai pronuntat decat in tarile vestice) si pot sa spun ca am observat treaba asta dupa am cunoscut o multime de alte natii din toate colturile lumii. Sunt oameni si oameni si nu vad de ce ar trebui judecati, iar fiecare are dreptul sa fie si sa traiasca cum vrea. Referitor la cei cu dizabilitati, cred ca cei care ii judeca sunt de fapt cei limitati.

    pupici!

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    1. Da... suntem o natie acre judecam dupa aparente. Suntem inca incuiati...ne vom dezgheta si noi peste ani si ani. Sunt norocoasa ca o am ca prietena pe Klaudia. Este un fotograf bun, si e fain sa ai poze profi. ;)

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  5. Si chiar daca stim despre ei tot nu ar trebui sa judecam. Si chiar daca.. insa se intampla oricui chiar daca nu oricum.

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  6. frumoase fotografii!
    in rest, ce sa zic? fiecare cum poate! eu am un stil asa de-a face oamenii sa se holbeze :)...am cate un detaliu iesit din comun, cand totul pare super cuminte :)))

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  7. cat de draguta esti. si ador rochita ta, e super :) imi place blogul tau, it dau follow

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  8. Thanks for visiting and following. following back.
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  9. A message we should all pay attention to.
    Thank you!
    Hugs!

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  10. What nice dress!

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  11. So cute et romantic pics! and I agree with u dear Ella we need to free our mind and soul from normative people :) Love the way your are!

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  12. cat de draguta e rochita!! iar cerceii sunt adorabili <3
    pupici :*

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  13. wow! you look very great! yours look is very amazing <3 follow? i'm following now and hope you'll back ;*
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  14. Great look ;)
    Nice!

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  15. buna draguta. da, sunt romanca, doar ca pe blog scriu in spaniola. locuiesc in spania de multi ani si cei mai multi vizitatori sunt spanioli.. te pup si mersid e comenatriul tau dragut

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    1. Hey, super tare!! Ador spaniola, dar pare greu de scris...felicitari!:)

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  16. I love the song and your look,of course! I'm following you, it'll be very nice of you to follow back http://www.jimmygorgeous.com/

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  17. Hello dear! I am your new follower) Hope you will follow me back, it would be great!)

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    Keep in touch)
    XOXO

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  18. OMG! I love your blog!
    I follow with GFC

    xoxo from poland :*

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  19. That's right and I totaly agree with all of those statements of you, though it's really hard sometimes not to judge. You know, we are all just humans and we can be in a different state of mind or situations, that's why sometimes it's really hard to make right things and to act wisely.
    I love that song by the way and I do like Pink in general, she is probably the only one honest singer t my mind.
    oh, and you look charming, dear Ella) No matter what you are wearing) Those earings are just like from a fairy tale)
    Wish you a blessed day ahead!

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    1. How can you be so nice all the time? :) Thank you very much for having time to express your opinion, for reading my posts, and for being so damn adorable. A lovely week Alexandra. :)

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  20. Gret look. I am so in klove with those earrings, I have never seen anything like ir. I want a pair!

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    1. Thanks. I know...they are adorable. It's a gifts from my mom!:)

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  21. You look so sweet in this denim dress! & I especially love how you paired it up with those cute red sneakers! Super cool and stylish outfit! :)
    And I love your earrings, how nice is the idea?

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  22. bine as fi sa stim judeca pa noi dupaia pa alti,,,asta este o problema lumi -pupici

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  23. beautifull photoes ♥
    nice blog ;')

    follow me , please :*

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  24. Amazing ensemble! Loving the denim dress and sunnies!
    Much love and kisses from Miami,
    Borka
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  25. Bardzo ładnie :)
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    Zapraszam do mnie :)

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  26. lovely photos and cute outfit <3
    what about follow each other?
    let me know :)
    have a nice day!
    xx
    Veronica

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  27. Wow you look so beautiful and chic!!
    I love your blog, would you like to follow each others?

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  28. Nice post :) love the photos you look gorgeous
    Would you like to follow each other via GFC, Bloglovin and Facebook?
    Let me know :)
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    1. Carla, that would be awesome! I'll follow you dear, thanks for visiting ;)

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  29. Hey dear, thanks for the visit!:) I'll check your blog, sure!!!:)

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  30. hello dear! thank you for your lovely comment! following You now :) hope You will follow me too :))

    xoxo

    Kathy from fashiongamesblog.blogspot.com

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  31. I would love that. Thanks for the visit!:)

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  32. thanks for follow me dear <3
    follow you back now :)
    wanna follow also on facebook & pinterest?
    let me know :)
    xx
    veronica

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  33. you look lovely in that denim dress

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